Saturday, December 31, 2022

December's Garden (2022)

The old saying is true, "Death comes in threes." This month we lost Mom, then Scooter, and now my garden is gone.


Most of the middle of the USA was hit by a massive polar vortex of bitter arctic air that froze the nation. My area had 30-mile-an-hour wind gusts and temperatures between the lower 20s and zero degrees Fahrenheit for four days. The garden has endured low temperatures before but the high winds were too much. It was destroyed. 


The death of a garden is obviously nothing in comparison to the loss of Mom and Scooter but it is compounded pain. It is like a sore thumb that keeps getting smashed. My heart keeps getting trampled.


The garden is a difficult loss for us since we eat from it daily and share it with others. Prices are rising and shortages are rapidly increasing in my area. Winter vegetables taste better in cold weather but more importantly, they are medicine for our health problems. It was a big disappointment.


Below is last year's garden at this exact same time.  This is the amount of produce that I was striving to have as we move into the colder months of winter. This was the plan. This was my dream.

December 29, 2021

As I look back, this year I worked much harder than last but was met with repeated defeat (drought and pestilence).  I tried as hard as I could but failed. It just wasn't my year for a fall or winter garden.

December 29, 2021

My brother put life into perspective as we were sadly going through Mom's possessions at her assisted living apartment after she had passed.  We had her room torn apart and were sorting her things into various piles to be donated. He said, we had been hit by a tornado and were digging through the rubble trying to salvage what we could; next, we needed to move on and rebuild. Life is one tornado right after the other. 

His wisdom made sense. This year my family has experienced more tornados than we can count and they just keep coming.





When the weather clears, I will return to the garden to begin salvaging anything that might be edible. There are a few plants with tiny green leaves hidden under the damage that could grow a little if the weather improves. 

Soon, it will be time to start seeds for spring. Rebuilding and planting time is ahead. 


Sunday, December 25, 2022

Scooter, Our Best Friend


My sons scheduled their vacations at the same time again so we could all be together. Reese lives the furthest away. The last time he was home in February we all had covid and Bill almost died in the hospital.  Our family has had a rough year and we all agreed this vacation was going to be different. We would have fun. 


We had a long list of exciting things planned, well, exciting to us at least.


Just as they were arriving home, my Mom passed away. Since I finally had a free moment, the following morning Bill and I took Scooter to the vet. He had begun losing weight and drinking extra water which we thought was caused by his dog food. We changed brands and he improved but we still wanted to make sure he was fine.  

He was diagnosed with diabetes and because of his age, there were no good options.  He only had a week and a half left to live.  He became the center of our lives. 


He was given constant love and attention.


He was taken on slow, daily walks down the driveway and got to lead the way and sniff anything he wanted.


Very quickly he was unable to make it back home.

He deteriorated rapidly.


We cried constantly.


We all said our goodbyes then Bill carried him slowly down the driveway for one last walk.


He paused for a while so Scotter could look around and then we went to the vet. Bill held him while they put him to sleep.


We can't stop crying. Scooter was our constant comfort during many dark and sad times. We miss him tremendously.

Tuesday, November 29, 2022

November's Garden (2022)

The garden has been ignored. I began putting up the hoop houses and then ran out of time.  New row covers were ordered and when they arrived, I didn't bother to measure or cut them - just threw them up.  

This is one long piece of fabric that covers four rows.


It is huge. 


The corners have been raised a few times but mostly it has stayed shut.


I didn't put up all of the wire supports in the back area of the garden.  


The covers were tossed over the plants and pinned down.



The weather has improved so the bed with Bloomsdale spinach has been left open. Salad leaves are easy to harvest between the weeds. However, I haven't had enough time to uncover the hoop houses for pictures.


Mom had an emergency gallbladder surgery at the end of last month. She was improving when we celebrated her 90th birthday last week and then everyone around her at the facility came down with the flu. Mom caught it and yesterday it turned into pneumonia. 

Working in the garden has been impossible. 


This coming weekend all three sons will be arriving home for their vacations. They coordinated their schedules because we haven't been together in a year. 


The garden will be turned over to Reese and he will "get the honor" (my expression when assigning a chore) of opening the hoop houses to see what is left. He can harvest and prepare anything he wants. He cooks and his father and brothers clean up the mess. That makes everyone happy. Whatever is left will return with them to their apartments.  The pickins' have been thin this fall but we will appreciate whatever we get.


UPDATE
Yesterday afternoon Mom passed away. When wishing her happy birthday last week, she said she wanted no more. I teased her but she was determined this was to be the last. She was finished.

In the silence following her final breath, my sister said, "I wonder which of her many dogs will be meeting her at the gates?"

I snickered and then felt a tad bit irreverent. It was a family joke; Mom loved her dogs more than she loved us. Through our tears, we reminisced about her different dogs - some good and some not. Then my sister said, "She has her vision and can see now! And she can walk without stumbling! Then we wondered who else was there to meet her and what fun they would be having.


This weekend my three sons will be coming home. I will get to hug them and rest. Life is good. God is good.

Sunday, October 30, 2022

October's Garden (2022)


The winter garden is planted and it is pitiful.


Winter arrived and it hit hard.  We had three nights in a row where the temperature dropped to the upper twenties and it was three weeks earlier than usual.  This is the lush garden one day before the first frost.  We were rushing at breakneck speed to get everything inside.


These are the peppers the following day.


They were loaded and the harvest was excellent.


The experiment of letting the winter squash spread out into the yard worked, but they didn't produce much at all. It was probably due to the drought in our area. If the weather is bad enough to dry up the Mississippi River, then who can expect water-guzzling squash to thrive? 



The winter squash that had been planted beside the field and allowed to run up the fence did not do well either. It appears the herd of horses we have on our property includes someone who likes to sample and trample squash. None were eaten but teeth and hoof marks are evident. 


Even though the squash harvest was disappointing, the sweet potatoes made me happy.


Considering they were shoved between tomato plant's roots and had Lima bean vines spreading over their heads - they produced wonderfully. Next year they will be put under tomato plants again but no more Lima beans. It was too crowded.


Another disappointment was the failure of the seedlings for the winter garden.  Hundreds of seedlings of various varieties are started during late summer in small cups on the front porch. This year the expensive name-brand potting soil I purchased new was not seasoned well. It killed all of the seedlings. Not knowing what was wrong, I planted them again and the second batched died also. When I realized what was happening I switched to soil from the garden and started again.


We had gone almost three months without any rain and when a storm finally arrived, it was so violent it blew everything off of the porch and into the yard.  All of the seedlings were shredded.  Nothing was useable. That has never happened before. This past spring, a storm picked up a metal chair and slammed it on top of the okra seedlings but not once has everything on the porch been tossed.  Are increasingly violent storms becoming the new normal?


Before the storm hit, at least a few of Bill's favorite Golden Beauty cabbages were in the ground. The whole garden should look like this row.



In addition to the three-week early frost, drought, bad potting soil, and shredded seedlings, the invasion of the plant smashers has continued unabated.  Even with an extra fence, solar motion lights, and motion detector alarms that warn us inside the house of invaders in the garden, the destruction continues. There are gaps in all the rows where the plants have been killed. Endless holes are left behind.


In an effort to have something, anything growing in my garden, all thinned seedlings are transplanted.  At the time these lettuce seeds were tossed out, I had no idea they would be all I had.  



The back of the garden has root crops - radishes, beets, and carrots. They were direct sown because they can't be successfully transplanted.


At the risk of being gruesome, none of this area has been harvested.  It is contaminated by blood splatters and pieces of the many foes that have been shot as they tried to flee. The invasion has been unrelenting. The alarm sounded at 5:00 am this morning and Bill got another armadillo. I won't go to the garden until he shows me the areas to avoid.


There is a bright spot. The Pusa Gulabi winter radishes have leaves that are not prickly like regular radishes and can be used in salads. However, every time we pull one up, there will be fewer salad leaves growing. If it wasn't for them, we wouldn't have much to eat fresh from the garden now.


To prove that I am not exaggerating about how much the garden has been devastated, this is last year's winter garden on the exact same day as today.


These are all winter vegetables waiting to be put under the hoop houses. 


We won't starve. The garden started off fantastic and only faltered when the rain stopped. The summer's bounty will certainly see us through. It's just hard to have worked so hard and now have nothing to show for it.  But. That is gardening. 

At least we have help.  Scooter guards his kingdom through the back fence.  He lets us know when something has invaded and tracks their steps. 


Nothing is better than lying in a hedge of weeds while watching the world go by.  I think Scooter has the right idea.